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Gimps and Game
This is a subject I’ve wanted to write about for quite some time. I’m in a somewhat unique position in that on a wheelchair-based PUA, but I’d like to say that my position is not totally unique, thank God! Like I said I’ve wanted to write on this subject for a while, but I recently received an extra bit of inspiration when I was talking to a friend of mine, who just so happens to also be in a wheelchair. He was telling me that he only knows one girl, and that their best friends and have been for a while. That got me to thinking, I’ve been there more than once, and I learned a lot from it. So, I decided to give it a shot and give the other aspiring gimp PUAs some advice.
1. The first thing you should know is that your wheelchair does not define who you are. You are not the same entity as your wheelchair. You are a person in a wheelchair, not a person AND a wheelchair.
2. We can get away with saying and doing things that would likely get other guys blown out. Such as looking at her ass or breasts, then using it as an excuse for her to meet your eye level rather than craning your neck to meet her eyes.
3. Bump into her, it will be ok; most people are programmed to be polite to disabled people.
4. You are by nature of the chair, nonthreatening… USE IT!
Being in a chair can be an asset, for one it makes us more observant (hopefully), due to having to spot potential dangers our able bodied counterparts do not. And for Christ sakes, do not be afraid to talk about sex! Most guys who are disabled are scared or ashamed to, don’t be, people will find it refreshing.
That’s about it for now, but don’t worry, this is part of an upcoming series on the subject. There will also be a ton of great stuff for y’all two legged non-metallic folk too. Stay Tuned! I just wanted to give my fellow rolling compadres some essential things to consider.
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Ethics of Seduction: To Seduce or Not to Seduce? That is Never The Question
Ok, so it’s about 1 a.m. and I started thinking about the greatest assets of the PUA mindset. One is the sheer number of people I’ve met since my shyness has become less of an issue, and the other? You guessed it, the women! What if she has a boyfriend? Alot of times, we get women who want us because they are unhappy with their current boy toys, spouses or whatever. I know what you might be thinking, “Dude, she wants me! End of discussion.” Down Boy! You can thank our PUA forefathers for leaving us this gem of a quote, “leave her better than you found her.” Now I know we all have uges and we will mess up, but knowing that is no justification. Does that mean I’m saying you shouldn’t approach if you KNOW she’s involved with someone? Hell fucking no! Seduction is everywhere, from beer commercials to spring break, and the more you practice the better you get.
What I am saying is practice always but ask yourself: Am I leaving her better off than she was? Look, if it’s a one time thing, be careful… But there is one solution, an open relationship. What’s that you say? Isn’t that the same as cheating? It depends on how you look at it. If you make the argument that multiple partners is a shitty and dare I say it, sinful thing, then maybe, but here’s my criteria:
Open Relationships
1. More than one partner
2. Everone involved is at least of age
3. All people involved are in the know and are cool with it
Cheating is just a way of saying you weren’t grown up enough to have an honest conversation about polyamory. Remember, if everone knows and it it’s cool, it’s all good.