Archive for May, 2009
Ethics of Seduction: To Seduce or Not to Seduce? That is Never The Question
Ok, so it’s about 1 a.m. and I started thinking about the greatest assets of the PUA mindset. One is the sheer number of people I’ve met since my shyness has become less of an issue, and the other? You guessed it, the women! What if she has a boyfriend? Alot of times, we get women who want us because they are unhappy with their current boy toys, spouses or whatever. I know what you might be thinking, “Dude, she wants me! End of discussion.” Down Boy! You can thank our PUA forefathers for leaving us this gem of a quote, “leave her better than you found her.” Now I know we all have uges and we will mess up, but knowing that is no justification. Does that mean I’m saying you shouldn’t approach if you KNOW she’s involved with someone? Hell fucking no! Seduction is everywhere, from beer commercials to spring break, and the more you practice the better you get.
What I am saying is practice always but ask yourself: Am I leaving her better off than she was? Look, if it’s a one time thing, be careful… But there is one solution, an open relationship. What’s that you say? Isn’t that the same as cheating? It depends on how you look at it. If you make the argument that multiple partners is a shitty and dare I say it, sinful thing, then maybe, but here’s my criteria:
Open Relationships
1. More than one partner
2. Everone involved is at least of age
3. All people involved are in the know and are cool with it
Cheating is just a way of saying you weren’t grown up enough to have an honest conversation about polyamory. Remember, if everone knows and it it’s cool, it’s all good.
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