The SD Card

This is a subject I’ve wanted to write about for quite some time. I’m in a somewhat unique position in that on a wheelchair-based PUA, but I’d like to say that my position is not totally unique, thank God! Like I said I’ve wanted to write on this subject for a while, but I recently received an extra bit of inspiration when I was talking to a friend of mine, who just so happens to also be in a wheelchair. He was telling me that he only knows one girl, and that their best friends and have been for a while. That got me to thinking, I’ve been there more than once, and I learned a lot from it. So, I decided to give it a shot and give the other aspiring gimp PUAs some advice.

1. The first thing you should know is that your wheelchair does not define who you are. You are not the same entity as your wheelchair. You are a person in a wheelchair, not a person AND a wheelchair.

2. We can get away with saying and doing things that would likely get other guys blown out. Such as looking at her ass or breasts, then using it as an excuse for her to meet your eye level rather than craning your neck to meet her eyes.

3. Bump into her, it will be ok; most people are programmed to be polite to disabled people.

4. You are by nature of the chair, nonthreatening… USE IT!

Being in a chair can be an asset, for one it makes us more observant (hopefully), due to having to spot potential dangers our able bodied counterparts do not. And for Christ sakes, do not be afraid to talk about sex! Most guys who are disabled are scared or ashamed to, don’t be, people will find it refreshing.

That’s about it for now, but don’t worry, this is part of an upcoming series on the subject. There will also be a ton of great stuff for y’all two legged non-metallic folk too. Stay Tuned! I just wanted to give my fellow rolling compadres some essential things to consider.

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